You are strong (and more than you think about).

Living as Asian women, usually harder than Western woman. The culture force us as Asian woman to stand below the man. The culture force us to be a servant for a man and not a partner.

Of course in a big city, you almost do not find this kind of weird situation.  Women and men are in the same level, we are partner, have same right for almost everything. And the famous name for that is "Gender Equity" :D  Of course not all people in the big cities will accept that kind of equity. But the situation will not be to worse compare in the small cities or villages.

The worse part of this culture when man shows their superior side to woman and use it to their partner. And this beautiful lady as his partner begins to feel that how he treat her is the normal situation that she should accept. Because as a woman, she born to be weak. Because as a woman, she could do nothing when he treated her bad. Because he has more power than her. And he has more money than her and she could do nothing without him. He treat her bad, talk to her so bad and step by step she got to use the situation and then begin to loose her self confidence. 

I do not want to judge any man in here. I do not want to blame any culture in here. But as apart of  a woman in this world (hahahahhaha) I have a dreams to change all the womens mind in that situation. Yup kind of solidarity for woman. LOL

I want you as a woman  to realize that you are born to be a woman, it mean actually you are stronger than any man in this world.  Because only woman can give a birth their children and that is the time when she should stand the worse pain in this world!!!!!!!! 

If God give the confidence to woman  that we can resist to feel that kind of pain and even did not trust man (who said that they are the stronger people in this world), so ladies, if  you are believe in God, you should trust that you are actually born  more than 1000 times stronger than a man!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Because you are strong,  if someone treat you bad, do not respect you, hit or beat you, and put you as their servant, just let them go. Trust yourself. Don't wait until someone change the culture, don't wait until someone help you. You just need the trustee to yourself and your God, (and of course if you trust me too, I will always beside you and support you) 

But please of course it  does not mean that you should treat all men in a bad way. Hi .. we still need them, right ? hahahhahahahahaa. Not all men are bad. They are same like us. Many of them are good guys.  If you do not meet the nice guys now, may be tomorrow, you will meet them. Whose know?  Just don't worry about that :D 

Life is great actually. Just depend on you, how you enjoy and colorful your life :D 

So ladies ... please love and trust yourself.