See with your heart - not only with your eyes

Last few weeks, I realize that I used my eyes more than my heart to see people problem or to see people reaction.

And that was cause many problems with me. I looked like a mad old woman, who loose her control because of less love. LOL

Especially because of my job at my office, where I have to handle all staff at the office. May be all of them, thought that I could not sacrifice with all they did, some one who just know something name "COMPLAIN", some one who thought that only she can do everything perfect. No one can do like her.

Yup, actually if I am in the middle of my stress because of the dateline, it is easier for me to get angry. And ussually one trick that I always do to handle my angriness, is sitting down, take a deep breath and trying to change my point of view.

And than use my heart and trying to put my self at their position. I am using this method again and again and seems work. And the best things from that, I can through away my angriness, do not ill feel and the best of that, I did not hurt someone by accident because of my words.

Because if we use our heart to see everything, from people point of view. It will not need many of your passion, and it will easy for you to forgive everybody. Sometimes, people do something for someone because of their good will - want to help people. But when they did it, unfortunately the result is not as same as what they think or sometimes it make the problem became worse. But trust me, many of them, often did not mean it. So, I thought it is not fair if we get angry with them just because of that. Just forgive them, tell them in the good way, why it is better if they did not do it, so they will understand and will not just ill feel to you because they did not understand what is the trouble they make it because of their action.

My weakness now, is if I am too tired, have too much work, hard for me to sit down, take a deep beath and try to use my heart to see deeper. May be now I should handle my self to more care about them and be passion with them no matter how tired I am.

But I believe, I can do it next week , so there will be only smile face around me :D