Between hormone and being a servant

Today I saw something that I think I should not see again ^_^ At least I should not see this would happen in Jakarta the capital of Indonesia, one of modern city where are modern, faboulous, educated women staying, and especially at my office where is gender equity, is something which is common.

And do you want to know what I saw actually?

One of woman, around thirty with her consciousness, really wanted to be a servant for a man, eventhough that man, is not her husband at all, just because wanted to feel close with him. Can you imagine? Uhmmmmm.......

How can you let yourself to be a servant just for a health man (red: again health man!!!!!!!!!!) at the office and in front of a few people. How can you want to be a stupid like that to let your dignity gone away just for a man who (maybe) will forget you if he wake up tomorrow.

So ... suddenly I remembered about women, single around thirthy which is her hormone ringing the bell at her self and the sound looks like a whisper ... "must marry someone as soon as possible, must marry someone as soon as possible, must marry someone as soon as possible, must marry someone as soon as possible....... " again and again . LOL

Now, can you see the link between being a servant and hormone? Hahahhahahaha

But still even though, from the deep of my heart, I can understand her reason ....... hard for me to see her "sold her soul" like that. Hard for me to see her to be a servant like that :-(

Or actually ... it is normal for a single woman above thirty like me ? Oh no........ !!!!!!!!!!!!

Drama Queen to be

As a woman above 30, I think I already pass the "drama queen" periode ^_^

The periode when you think to make every small problem be a big problem. The periode where you think that being a drama queen is one of the best solution to solve your problem, to make all people around you( especially people who love you) will give whatever you want or the worse thing to get all sympatie that you need to release your ego.

Of course, even though I've ever been a drama queen before (hi ..... I was one of the best drama queen in this world I think ... LOL) and knew why many young women under my age do this, but still .... to see this drama queen to be by one of people near me ....... will ruin my nerves.
And need loooooooooong time to get my self to be passion and need ton of my positive energy to get my understanding for her situation ^_^

And the worse things from this drama queen ....... when your position at that time as a bad guy who is soooooooooooooooo bad and wants to kill this drama queen by his sword.........
So all people who became so touchy cause of the story of this drama queen will try to save her from you the queen of devil. hahahhahahhahaa

Uhm.......
and the end of this story?
Suddenly I feel sorry to all people who ever been a devil at the time I was being a drama queen.
And realize what the trouble I made to them at that time.
Really sorry guys ^_^

Mothers day ..

22 Dec is mothers day in Indonesia.

And as ussual I never said anything to my mom :-)
Not say thanks, not give hug, and ofcourse not give any present to her.
Yup, a bad daughter ........ LOL

Actually mothers day always bring me to my biggest desire.
I really want to have my own children.
Not just nephew, but my own children.

Since last year, I think about adopt one child.
And of course no body in here ( I mean my mom, my siblings) agree about that kind of idea.
Because again ........ my single status !!!!!!!!!

Same as almost all women above thirty .... we realize or not .. there must be a kind of worryness whether we could have our own baby or not one day ...... because it kind of race against your biological times. Uh!!!!
Now a little bit envy to a man. Why we couldn't be like a man? They can have their own children ........ no matter how old they are :-(

Lonely

Do you know, what the hard things to be single and above thirthy?
When you feel so lonely.

All your friends, who are at your age, are already married and busy with their family at least busy with their kids. And all your friends, who are under your age, can't talk as mature as you are.

You need someone to share something with, you need someone to talk with you as "a human" and not as a 'wise' person who know all the answer and who care with all the problems. You need shoulder to cry on, you need someone who are brave enough to make a joke about you without hurt you.

Do you know, sometimes there is a time late at night like now, when I open all the chat media that I have from YM, Skype, Facebook chat room, Windows line, just because I want to talk with some one.

And do you know, sometimes no one that you wish to talk with you want to talk with you, or just ignore your "hi" until he/she signed out :-(

And after that you feel ........ uhm..... something wrong with me, did I hurt them, did I do something bad, and then beside to think about your loneliness, you just busy to think about this person.

Or actually it is the best solution to help you from the lonely feeling? ^_^

Dunno

Sometimes, you have a naughty thought, to go out to the club and do something to move on your loneliness. Find every single man that you meet and talk with them. But after that I feel so lazy and so stupid to do something which may be I will regret. So, until now .... I never let my naughty thought work .......... LOL

Really missing something kind of someone pick me up from my office, or missing something kind of walking side by side with someone. Missing something kind of feeling waiting by someone, missing something kind of trying hard to look beauty cause of someone.

Uhm...
Feel want to fly ....... meet the owner of my heart .......

Hi you .....
would you want talk with me ? ^_^

The reason I like romantic movie

Romantic - Drama is actually the kind of movie I like to see, but not all romantic - drama, only the romantic drama which is ending with happiness.
And why I like that kind of movie?

The answers are:
1. every time I watched a movie, it always came to my dream.
2. I think, if you just want to see the sadness, you do not need to see a movie. Just go outside and listen your friend or people around you.
3. I learn to feel and be a romantic.
Even though, my friends always said, I still did not look kind of romantic person at all after I saw ton of romantic movies. (PS My answer to them: if I did not see the romantic movie anymore, that is the time they will see, how romantic I am .....hahahhhahahaa)

But actually, I think I am the romantic person in this world.
I made a poem about love a lot lately, since uhm.... last year?
I wrote about love story in my imagination ...... not much....
I listen many love songs almost every day ..... like when I am writing down this .... I listen a song

" and I love you so, the people ask me how,
I tell them I don't know"

Yes, no one beside my side like you see.
Yes I am still single, like you knew.
But still ....there is someone who owner my heart actually,someone who always color my dream, and always at the first list of my pray.
Of course watching this kind of movie, somehow make my longing became bigger and bigger :-( But the positive side, my dream will be more colorful. Ehm....... hahahahahaha

Lately I saw the proposal ......
A movie about woman who propose a man just because for the legal residence status.
Nice.
Even though I knew, it is not too popular like 2012 .... hahhahaaaaha

And Tuesday ....
I want to see New Moon .......
uhm........ I read all the 4th book from Stephanie Meyer .......
And could not wait until I get the romantic feeling when I see the movie ..........
And I bet you knew who will be the Bella and the handsome Edward Cullen at my dream after I see the movie ...... hahhahhahahaahaha

One day at my life - you are for me

I couldn't tell you in a thousand years, with a thousand smiles and a thousand tears, how much I love you.

I could try one hundred thousand ways but I couldn't reveal the depth of emotion that even words can't say.

If I could send my thoughts directly to your heart alone in every fashion and language known, I still couldn't reveal how much I love you.

If I could paint my feelings into a priceless piece of art, send my admiration on the wings of a dove, soaring straight to your heart...

I still couldn't reveal the depth of my love.

But I vow that you're all I've ever dreamed of... and though words can't say it, I want you to know it because I love you forever and I intend to show it

................

No self confidence status

This is my state today : no self confidence at all :-(

Loose the last self confidence that I have suddenly ...... gone with the wind .....

Why? Dunno

I feel that I have nothing. Watched my self at the mirrow and see that I have nothing. Read all my friends status at FB ....... and again feel that I have nothing.

5 years ago, when I back again to my country ....... I felt the same thing.
why suddenly I felt this feeling again.
Uhm..............

3 weeks ago ... someone was really angry with me because I said that nothing special about me. He was so angry. And said will hate me so much if I said again that nothing special about me.
He said, who knows what will happen tomorrow. Have nothing is not mean that nothing special about me. ^ _ ^

Or may be because last week I got to much insult from many people?
Dunno

Hole in my heart is bigger now.
Wish not reach my old big wound. Cause it would make it bleed again.
And this time ...... seriously .... I do not know how to heal it again.

uhmmmmmmmmm.......... too sensitive
or actually it is normal for women at my age? ..........

Should have a riset for that ...... LOL