why man mostly has an affair with ugly woman?

Why man mostly has an affair with ugly woman? And my another question is why mostly man who has beautiful or sexy or famous wife, always has an affair? This are my questions which I do not get any answer until now :D The second question, the answer may be because the woman is busy with herself, so she forget to take care about her man. You know, sometimes man like a child, he needs attention more than any body else. LOL

So let us check a few cases about famous married guys who have an affair :

1. Prince Charles

In my opinion (and I thought in many people in this world), Prince Charles ex wife : Lady Diana is very beautiful woman. Beside beautiful Princes Diana is very kind woman and humble too. But he had an affair with Camila who is more ugly and older than Lady Diana. For me it is so awful, why he did not get others beautiful and young woman which was easy to get because he is a Prince :D Why must be with Camila ???

2. Hugh Grant

Hugh Grant had an affair with one hooker name Divine Brown when he was together with Elizabeth Hurley. Can you imagine? Elizabeth Hurley is so beautiful and famous, could not compare with just no body name Divine Brown. And why Hugh Grant should have an affair with her if he could get any beautiful actress or famous woman? Uh!!!!

3. Eric Benet

Eric Benet is Halle Berry ex husband. When they were together, Eric Benet had many affairs with many women. Can you imagine? Why he did not feel sacrifice to have very beautiful woman in this world like Halle Berry? Why did he still need others women in his life?

4.Bill Clinton

This was ever be a scandalize story when Bill Clinton had an affair with Monica Lewinsky who is fat and more ugly if compare with Hillary Clinton. They both can not be compared. Exclude the ages, Hillary Clinton is more in everything than Monica Lewinsky. So, why Bill Clinton did have an affair with her? Too lonely? :D

5.Arnold Schwarzegger

This is the new scandalize story lately. How could he has an affair with his maid who can not compare with his wife Maria Shiver? I do not understand why he did this stupid things. Where was her brain when he did it? Uhm....

And there is many others stories about kind of affair. And all are same stories :D

Of course it is not my problem, I just want to know the reason, why they choose women who are not comparable with their partner? Why not with woman who are more beautiful, more famous, richer ?

Uhm .... really hope one day, there is a man who can explain why this phenomenon happen, so I can more understand it with my logical thinking :D

About the jealousy

Do you know the problem between females friends usually about jealousy between each other. Even though I am woman but hard for me to understand this kind of jealousy.

I will tell you about one of my female friend. I think her life is almost perfect. She has a good carrier, high education, lovely children, lovely spouse, good house, good income. Somehow I thought she should just enjoy her life without any kind of jealously because many women want to be like her.

But in the reality, it is not like that. She always makes her life complicated by always wants to be number one in front of all her friends and she is always jealous if she found that many others friends talk about how good another woman (which is actually her friend too but she thought, not comparable with her). And then she begin to do anything to keep her self always being number one and bring down this woman.

For her, seducing all men especially if she knows that man is her friend boyfriend or husband or her friend crush or crushed by her friend, is absolutely a good way to defend her position as the number one woman around her world :D. No woman could be number one as long as she is there. And no men could be fall in love with another women but her. Yes ... you do not trust me, but this is the truth.

So it is the reason why she rarely (almost never) has a friend. Her old friend is just me. Why? Because in her mind, may be because no one will see me as a woman (yes of course she always knows that I do not have any boy friend. LOL and I rarely talk too much about any guys with her), and for her I am not her hard competitor. LOL

Actually, I do not too much care about what she is doing to others, even though sometimes bother me because I could not understand how can she is still trying to seduce others men (no matter her reason) even though she has already her lovely spouse, but last time she did something which is a bit hurt my pride.

She was knowing one man. From her stories, this man - Mr X, is falling in love with her and always sent her text, called her, and asked her to meet him. Like a crazy fans :D. And it bothered her so much.From my best friends stories, she was the first one who was seducing Mr X and got shocked after met him. LOL

So she asked me to replace her place !!!!!!!!!!!! Can you imagine? Replace her place. Her reason is because I do not have any lover and she doesn't want to bother by him anymore. I know actually she is a bit bother because many of our friends really busy to find lover for me, so no one care about her. She has to be the center of attention, and not me.

Uhm ....

For me it is a bit cruel. Why did she do that thing to me. We are really old friend and so long, I never bother her and never leave her even though many of my friends did.

I am not a garbage. May be now, there is no one fall in love with me yet, but who knows in next minutes? A man is not an object. And it is not fair to treat someone who loves you like that. And still I am just I am, and she is just she is. Without kind of things, I would not be her and she would not be me. We have our unique way. So why must be jealous and do bad things because of that?

why I like my gay friends

Lately .... I have a lot of gay friends. Actually I do not know why, but everyday, I have more and more gay friends.

And seriously ... I like and love them all. I feel comfortable with all their sensitive emotions, the way they told about their lover and what they are doing with them, their jealousy moment, their sadness, their laugh, their lovely voice, their fashion which is always neat, chic and clean. All the small part of them.

Not mean I want to change my orientation, hahhhahahaa, not at all. I am still straight woman :D

But they are loyal friends and more care than any body. Of course don't hurt them, because they are more sensitive than any women in this world even though they do not have any PMS hahahhaahhaa.

Hang out with them, sharing your feeling with them are the most awesome time. They do not judge that you are silly woman even though you are crying a river in front of them. They will not say that you are weak woman even though you say that you feel a ton burden at your shoulder now. They never judge the man that you love and do not love you hahhhahahhaha. They will tell you directly if you are wrong and not pretend that they like it. They will give you a shoulder to cry on whenever you need it. They will give you support if you lose your self confidence, they will try to find not a gay man if you do not have a boyfriend (even though until now, they do not success yet to find any body for me hahahhahhahaaha), they will joint with you sing a romantic songs, watch romantic movies (and crying together hahahhhahaa), discuss about handsome guys, gossiping :D And they are a good advisor for your mode. The other things ... even when you sleep together with them ... you are safe hahhhahahaha. Uh .... I am missing them already now ... but should wait until Thursday :(

Of course if someone asked me what my opinion about their sex orientation ... I will not give my opinion. It's their right and I do not have right to judge anybody. I am not God.

And of course it is not mean I do not feel comfortable with my not gay friends, I still feel comfortable with them, especially a few of my close friends. I still love them no matter what. And you.... you still can count on me if you need a friend for sharing with even though I am not gay :D